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@@ -104,13 +104,13 @@ member of the EC to discuss the incident further.
The most sincere apologies consist of "I'm sorry"
-An apology should be a sincere expression of sadness for the sadness
-of others. If you violate one of the principles in this document, but
-follow your apology with "...that", "...if", "..but", you're implying
-that the other person shares some of the blame for the incident.
-Since they're the one who's upset, that's not true. You may not have
-intended to make them feel bad, but you did, and saying "I'm sorry"
-shows that you regret that they feel bad (which, hopefully, you do.)
+An apology should be a sincere expression of sadness for the sadness of
+others. If you violate one of the principles in this document, but then
+qualify your apology with "...that", "...if", "..but", you're implying
+that the other person shares some of the blame for the incident. Since
+they're the one who's upset, that's not true. You may not have intended
+to make them feel bad, but you did, and saying "I'm sorry" shows that
+you regret that they feel bad (which, hopefully, you do.)
Sometimes, people are tempted to say "I'm sorry, but" (etc.) because
they don't want to concede their point in a discussion. But this sort