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@@ -117,21 +117,38 @@ person for doing what they did, that they should have done better, or
that their contribution wasn't worth making.
-Why have social rules?
-
-The goal isn't to burden SIPB with a bunch of annoying rules, or to
-give us a stick to bludgeon people with for "being bad." Rather, these
-rules are designed to help all of us build a pleasant, productive, and
-welcoming community.
-
-If someone says, "hey, you just feigned surprise," or "that's subtly
-sexist," don't worry. Just apologize, reflect for a second, and move
-on. It doesn't mean you're a "bad" person, or even a "bad" SIPB
-member. As we said above, these rules are meant to be lightweight. If
-you feel that somebody is repeatedly violating these rules, as with
-any other SIPB issue, please talk to the Chair or another EC member
-for help. In some cases, it might be appropriate for the Board or EC
-to take formal action, but we hope that won't be necessary.
-
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+Why have these principles?
+
+The goal isn't to burden SIPB with a bunch of annoying rules, nor to
+give us a stick to bludgeon people with for "being bad", nor to
+encourage "tattling". Rather, these rules are designed to help all of
+us build a pleasant, productive, and welcoming community.
+
+What happens if someone violates these principles?
+
+It is our hope that the entire community will strive to uphold these
+principles. If you feel that someone's behavior towards you violates
+the letter or the spirit of these principles, it is our hope that this
+document will make you feel empowered to raise this issue with that
+person, and explain your feelings. As always, however, if someone's
+behavior or speech in the office is making you feel uncomfortable or
+unwelcome, please contact a member of the EC.
+
+If you, as a third party, observe someone else violating the letter or
+spirit of these principles, you are encouraged to speak with the
+person who is upset (if feel comfortable doing so) and discuss the
+incident with them, and if they're still upset, encourage them to
+reach out to the EC. You should also feel empowered to speak to the
+other party, if you feel comfortable doing so. Finally, as always, if
+someone's behavior or speech in the office is making you feel
+uncomfortable or unwelcome, please contact a member of the EC.
+
+Finally, if you yourself realize that you just violated these
+principles, call yourself out on it publicly. Doing so will help
+convey that these issues are important to the community, and may help
+empower others to speak up. If someone else tells you that you
+violated these principles, take a minute to reflect, and apologize to
+the person, and move on. It doesn't mean you're a "bad" person, or
+even a "bad" SIPB member.
+
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